This struck a cord with me - not because I believed it, in fact I resisted that assertion believing that at least some of what I have been told and studied over the last 15+ years about money must be true, and not because I wasn’t prepared to attend the F*R*E*E* property seminar they were spruking - but because I realised that a lot of what I have been told, and a lot of what I tell myself is not true. It is not in alignment with my highest truth about money!
The sh!t we tell ourselves
I know that I tell myself some stuff about money. I should be earning more. I should be spending less. I should I should I should...
I heard many “I shoulds” from women around me, sometimes not in so many words, but the essence of the shoulds are things like:
- I should know all this already, I mean I am a smart person/educated/capable in other areas, etc
- I should do this or that differently
- I should be saving more
- I should be somewhere other than where I am right now financially
Does any of that resonate with you?
We beat ourselves up because of all the shoulds we have around money. And consequently the whole idea of money feels sh!t and heavy and distasteful - wouldn’t it be better to just avoid thoughts of money altogether?
My by pop through about my “money rules”
Today I was at a Weekly Women’s Circle I like to attend hosted by Cancer Support WA (to find out more go to http://www.cancersupportwa.org.au/weekly_program.html).
During the opening meditation I had a really powerful, exciting pop through. I realised I needed to make up my own “money rules”, by that I mean the ways of thinking about money and the “I shoulds” that I keep in place which limit my ability to experience joy and which feel restrictive.
(That’s right, even I continue to experience some of this stuff! Growth doesn’t end. If we were finished we would be ready to die.)
In this moment I was tuned in to my higher self. My inner knowing. My internal guidance.
And what came up was pretty amazing.
It has inspired me to create this blog and meditation so that you can all begin the process of creating your own true money rules.
My new money rules
What came up for me was very strong.
The new rules for money that evolved from my meditation were:
- It is divinely right for me to receive money in exchange for the powerful healing and transformation my work brings.
- It is an act of self love for me to spend money in ways that supports my wellbeing and purpose.
- I let go of the desire to be financially supported by a man.
And though I already “knew” this stuff. What happened in that moment, when the insights came through in the meditation, was that I was able to begin to really embody the truth of these words.
I felt myself let go of fear of earning more money. I felt myself sink into acceptance about the money I am spending, in particular the money to go to Nepal. I felt lighter and freer about dating and my relationships with men.
It is amazing to me how healing and transformation can happen, in the moment, in real time, so easily, when we tap into our higher knowing.
I am so freaking inspired here is your F*R*E*E Meditation
Unlike the property seminar sprukers, who no doubt tell you free info at the seminar and then sell you on further services, I am gifting you this meditation with no strings attached!!!
You don’t have to sign up for my email list. You don’t have to book a session with me. You don’t have to share it with your friends.
You may choose to do any of that but you don’t have to.
This is my gift to you because I believe that together we can transform money consciousness and that a fabulous way to do this is by tapping into our own internal guidance and shifting the rules we are using which impact the way we play this game of life. And I also believe you don’t need me to make this happen - you may choose to work with me but you don’t need to - what you do need is YOU!
You can now listen to the Making Your Own Money Rules Meditation and start creating your new money rules. The idea is that you can refer back to whatever comes up here and continue to interact with money from this cleaner, more expanded place.
Journey to Abundance